Sometimes it can be difficult to determine the true attitude of another person towards yourself. In relationships, there is no clear line or any one hundred percent guarantees, since all people are different. However, there are several distinguishing features that you should pay attention to when communicating.
Instructions
Step 1
If you want to determine the level of seriousness of intent to communicate with you another person, pay attention to his behavior with other people, best of all, your gender. What people sometimes take for a special attitude towards themselves is usually part of the behavior of a particular person and may not carry any particular ulterior motive.
Step 2
If you are convinced that the person's behavior towards you is different from the behavior with other people, notice if they are worried about this. This can be expressed in a look, touch, or other commonplace signs.
Step 3
If you want to know the level of a person's attitude towards you and the seriousness of his intentions, pay attention to the subject of your conversations. Usually, a person experiences excitement, trying to talk about everyday topics, and easily speaks about what is really close and interesting to him. This applies when he likes you. The superficiality of communication is given away by general phrases applicable to certain templates. Also, sometimes a person tries to attract another for some purpose by establishing prematurely close relationships between them, for example, starting conversations about rather serious things with an unfamiliar interlocutor. If communication proceeds smoothly, easily and in a timely manner, moving to the next level, most likely, the person is disposed towards you sincerely enough.
Step 4
If you see certain ulterior motives in his behavior, ask about them directly, this will not make anyone worse, and suspicion and guesswork on your part can become one of the reasons for establishing distrustful relationships. Try to give preference to communication with sincere people, but appropriately closed, since excessive sociability can also become a sign of a frivolous attitude.
